Goodbyes your child can anticipate
Build a brief, familiar goodbye with a trusted caregiver.
Separation can be hard even when your child knows the caregiver. Acknowledge sadness and explain who will stay with them. A predictable goodbye is clearer than disappearing unnoticed. Adjustment does not have to follow another family's timetable.
You can try
- Spend time together with the caregiver before separating.
- Use a simple goodbye and an understandable cue for your return.
- Agree how the caregiver will comfort your child and update you.
Reviewed sources
BabyBright, on your phone too
Keep observations, routines and memories in one place. Use BabyBright in your browser or download the app for everyday moments.
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