Clear limits, small choices
Make everyday expectations easier for your toddler to understand.
Simple, consistent limits help your child know what comes next. Say what they can do, not only what to stop. Give a small choice when both options are genuinely acceptable. Growing independence can be messy and slow: allow a little time to try before stepping in. Describe the effort you notice rather than labelling your child ‘good’, ‘bad’ or ‘the smartest’.
You can try
- Use one short instruction: ‘Feet on the floor.’
- Offer two choices: ‘The red cup or the blue cup?’
- Notice an action: ‘You put the blocks back in the box.’
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