How can we stop using the pacifier without a battle?
Reduce pacifier use with a gradual, predictable, respectful plan.
A pacifier can be an important calming tool. Letting it go is often easier when you first notice when your child needs it and change one situation at a time.
You can try
- Begin by keeping it for specific moments, such as sleep, and store it out of sight during the rest of the day.
- Prepare your child with simple words and offer another source of comfort: a cuddle, book, song, or familiar object.
- Notice the effort without punishment or teasing. During a major transition, you can pause and return to a clear plan.
Reviewed sources
BabyBright, on your phone too
Keep observations, routines and memories in one place. Use BabyBright in your browser or download the app for everyday moments.
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