Why does my toddler hit or bite—and what should I do?
Protect, set a brief limit, and teach alternatives while words and impulse control are still growing.
Hitting or biting may come with frustration, tiredness, overload, or an awkward attempt to connect. Understanding the reason does not remove the boundary: safety comes first.
You can try
- Stop the action gently and firmly: “I won’t let you hit.”
- Use few words in the moment and help create space or change activities.
- Once calm, practice one alternative: ask for a turn, say stop, or get an adult.
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