Help everyone feel they belong
Make space for different needs, siblings and family stories.
Families come in many forms. Familiar care, affection and respectful relationships help build a sense of belonging. A new sibling can bring mixed feelings; your older child does not have to be delighted all the time. Twins and siblings can also need different support. Avoid comparisons and make room for individual interests and time with you.
You can try
- Offer a short moment of one-to-one attention when possible.
- Name mixed feelings without blaming: ‘You miss our time together.’
- Choose stories and play that reflect your family and other kinds of families.
Reviewed sources
BabyBright, on your phone too
Keep observations, routines and memories in one place. Use BabyBright in your browser or download the app for everyday moments.
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