When a new sibling arrives
Make room for excitement, jealousy and wanting time with you.
A new baby changes routines and attention. Your older child may ask for help with things they previously did alone or show anger. Listen without expecting them to be “the big one” all the time. A small familiar ritual can offer continuity.
You can try
- Explain one concrete change in simple words.
- Invite a small contribution without making it a caregiving duty.
- Keep a story or song that remains your shared moment.
Reviewed sources
BabyBright, on your phone too
Keep observations, routines and memories in one place. Use BabyBright in your browser or download the app for everyday moments.
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