Starting daycare with more confidence
A gentle transition for goodbyes, reunions, and growing trust.
A new caregiver or setting can bring tears, tiredness, and a greater need for closeness at home. Repetition and predictable reunions help safety grow.
You can try
- Explain what will happen simply and practice brief separations before the first day.
- Use a short, recognizable goodbye; do not slip away unnoticed.
- At reunion, allow quiet connection before asking lots of questions or making demands.
Reviewed sources
BabyBright, on your phone too
Keep observations, routines and memories in one place. Use BabyBright in your browser or download the app for everyday moments.
Help everyone feel they belong
Make space for different needs, siblings and family stories.
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Why does my child cry when I leave, and how can I help?
Use brief, predictable goodbyes to build security over time.
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Meltdowns after daycare: making the return home gentler
For ages 1–4: a practical pickup routine when feelings spill over at home.
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