Tantrums and transitions: help without a power struggle
Practical ways to prepare for change, hold the feeling, and return to calm.
Tantrums often appear when tiredness, hunger, or a transition exceeds a child’s capacity in that moment. During the storm, your calm presence helps more than a long explanation.
You can try
- Give one short, concrete warning: “one more turn, then we put it away.”
- Offer two workable choices without moving the boundary: walk or hold hands.
- Afterward, name what happened briefly and reconnect without blame.
Reviewed sources
BabyBright, on your phone too
Keep observations, routines and memories in one place. Use BabyBright in your browser or download the app for everyday moments.
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